I’ve been seeing a man (60yrs old) for a little over a year. I’m 64. We have great sex, and we have can laugh at things together. He is VERY focused on just GOLF. I like it, but it’s not my life. I’d like to do other things once in a while. BIGGEST problem is I can’t see it going anywhere. He’s got a LOT of TOYS and a LOT of DEBTS, very little savings and no retirement plan. At our age, this concerns me. He lives 50 miles away, comes up weekends and I usually cook for hiim, and golf with him and pay my own way golfing and buy all the groceries for our weekends. . Oftentimes we spllit the cost half &half when we eat out which is not very often. He cannot be here for me when I need him. I’m not feeling “nurtured” which would be nice. I can’t see him moving, for me… as to drive far from work would be a bad situation right now. Shoud I move on to find a more stable relationship? I don’t want to nag him to do other things. Should I give up?